Rather than worry about what everyone thinks, spend more time focusing on what you can do about this issue. It is hard to believe, but there is more energy spent on focusing on the negative than focusing on the positive.
I remember struggling for months over my feelings that it was not fair that I had to watch my weight, and others did not. What I failed to see was that other people had their own issues also, but they didn’t wear theirs! If being fat is really my only difficult situation in my life, then I count that as a blessing!
First, you are not alone and you don’t have to go through this by your self. Many of us have struggled with the exact same thing and have been successful!
One of the biggest excuses that I hear is “I can’t afford a gym membership”.
Let me tell you, I took off my first 50 pounds by merely walking 1 mile in the morning and 1 mile at night. I did not have a gym membership, I was not close to a gym, and I had a very time-consuming job. What I did do, is to commit to doing something! Something was much better than nothing.
Secondly, another common excuse is “I can’t afford healthy food”. You are correct in thinking that healthy food is more expensive than junk food, but you can buy healthy food and eat less of it, and it comes out to be about the same cost. A good tip also is to eat more protein than carbs and fat. It is really that simple. Protein is what sticks with you, carbs and fat only assist the protein to stick with you.
Thirdly, realize that people will look at you and they will make a judgment based on what they see…that is life. We just have to get over that and I know it is not easy. But honestly I cannot encourage you strongly enough that if you will focus more on what you’re doing right and less on what people think that will be a huge step toward your success.
So, start moving your body …. whether it is at home or to a TV exercise program or walking; start shopping more wisely, and quit focusing on what people think about you.
The money you will save in healthcare expenses alone by being more healthy, by buying groceries that are more healthy and by having a great attitude, will shock you! Plus the added benefit of feeling fantastic, looking better, and feeling great about life… Will be a complete restoration from the inside out.
There is hope. Don’t ever give up. You can and will do this!